Well, McCreed, you inspired me to do more reading and youtube viewing...and as usual that confused me.
The makers of my stain (General Finishes) suggested adding 10% of their topcoat. They say that this will "lock in the color to reduce color pull when you apply the first clear coat."
Meanwhile the makers of Aqua Coat say that when using a water based dye stain it's best to seal with dewaxed shellac or one of their sealers before using their grain filler. I figured I'd try it both ways to see what works best, and so am prepping some test pieces.
My kids are no longer breaking boards in TKD, but I have a few paulownia boards left from when they did. My earlier tests produced decent results without a seal coat, but it should be interesting to see the comparison. Reports to follow...
I have a little 1lb blond shellac from experiments on some maple scraps to see what it would do to the color of a maple neck. Other than that I have never really used it. Hoping it's forgiving. Also hoping it won't yellow the stain.