1. Bridge ground wire - doesn't matter where it comes from - just needs to end at the bridge and form a connection (but not a loop) with all pots, the jack and the bridge.
2. Prewire should be fine - same as cats - many ways to skin a wiring diagram.
Colours of the wires change over time - the diagrams are indicative and I've coloured them to make the wires easier to follow. Otherwise we are playing with lots of grey and black lines that overlap.