This is what it's all about. After the first sanding with TO and 800 I put on a few coats and did TO sanding with 1200. After that another few coats and another TO sand with 1200. Now I did a few coats again and letting the top cure for a week. Then it's wet sanding with water and 2000grit.
Because I was too rough on the flaming with low grit paper in the beginning, I managed to dig deeper in to the wood and now I have to fill those areas with TO and everyone who has done this knows it's a slow process...
At least now I can start on the sides and back with more knowleage. First I have to get rid of some TO that I managed to spill on few spots on the sides. Saw a video about a razor blade with tape to remove high spots on the oil. Might use that or just put on layers and then sand it level. Now I'm gonna do the slurry a few times first and then TO sanding before putting on the thin coats.