Hi RNL, I have a feeling we've communicated on email a few times. Great to see you made it to the Forum.
You're on the right track... the Grover mini locking tuners are a no-brainer. They are excellent tuners and I guarantee you will not find them for less anywhere. We have a deal with Grover where we can sell them at this price on the condition that they are only for builders.
As for Babicz FCH... if you can afford it, I guarantee you will receive them and say "ahhh, ok, I can see why these cost so much" They are seriously impressive.
Bone nut... definitely. The bone is hand-picked by Clarence... 'nuff said.
The Gold Tele knobs... I think I know what you mean, but if you send me a pic I will be sure. I think you're talking about "Knurled Knobs" but a photo from the web would nail it.
Pickups... just depends what you want to spend. The Toneriders are very good value and I've heard great things about the Pure Vintage set. If you can afford a bit more, the Bensons are very good. For Custom, US made Pickups, they are excellent value.