I can't believe I didn't catch on to this sooner. For years my relationship with humbuckers has been one of ambivalence. For a raft of reasons, but mainly not digging the neck pickup tone.
Recently I have been replacing the standard tone circuit in a few of my strats with a Passive Treble Bass circuit (PTB ala Leo Fender) when it hit me - "why not do this with humbuckers?" - Duh!!!
Like most things, I am not the first to think of it, and a quick web search revealed numerous methods of accomplishing this.
I have now fitted two variants into two of my humbucker equipped guitars and it has been nothing less than a revelation. It's actually a bit emabarrassing that I had not discovered this sooner, especially since it's not a new concept. I have used a fixed high-pass filter in a standard tone circuit before, but this approach is so much better.
I can see these guitars getting played a whole more now and not ultimately being put back in their case with a feeling of "meh".
So your take-away should be this:
If you're not happy with the tone of your neck humbucker... install a Bass Cut!
I won't post any links, as diagrams and info are readily found online and there are different variations for different applications to choose which suits your scenario best.