measured it all and took some photos if i remove the pickup you can see the heel of the neck is sitting just out from the back of the neck pocket
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My plan to remedy this was to file some wood of the point where my finger is so the neck heel can meet the body and the distance from nut to 12th would become fairly equal to the distance from 12th to bridge
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but if there is a better way please tell me