Okay, reset the neck today. Took Simon's suggestion and put some wood veneer onto the neck joint where it was coming up short so I could get it clamped on both ends nice and tight. Had glue squirt out on both ends and we have no gap. We had a string on it so we could measure action on each end. About 1.2 mm now instead of 5 or 6. I'm sure I have some truss rod adjustments to make.

I appreciate all the help and support from the board. Per pitbull support suggestion, going to leave it clamped for at least 48 hours so will know more Monday or Tuesday.