No sweat, Andy40, there’s a bunch of activity on this forum, so it’s not surprising if not every question gets addressed. If we had been more lost on it we would have put our hand up again for assistance, but thanks for the PM offer.
As a related question, I’ve seen some people refer to using Timbermate or other filler before staining. Is that a good thing, especially for end grains, to avoid the ‘straws’ sucking up the colour?
I saw another forum or video where a user suggested pre-dampening those likely problem areas with a slightly wet cloth before adding the stain.
Are either of these ideas sound?